shy_mage: (Reserved smile)
shy_mage ([personal profile] shy_mage) wrote in [community profile] genessia2016-08-28 04:14 pm

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I-If you found out that you h... had a boyfriend, what would be the b-best way to keep him happy?

[Because he needs to learn about what to do in a relationship.]
redcinemareel: (Grell: Ah~?)

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[personal profile] redcinemareel 2016-08-28 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
[Oh....this is going to be sooooo good.]

It could depend on how long you've been seeing each other.
orlokbutterfly: ([Casual] Wait what)

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[personal profile] orlokbutterfly 2016-08-28 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I, uh. Don't think you just find that you have a boyfriend like you just find a lost kitten, kid.

[Color him baffled by your wording.]
orlokbutterfly: ([Casual] YGBSM)

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[personal profile] orlokbutterfly 2016-08-28 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Whooooa there, that's a big ol' red flag there.

[Oh boy. Relationship advice from Gale of all people.]

Relationships are something that needs to be mutually agreed to. If someone makes you get into it, you gotta reevaluate the situation.
redcinemareel: (Grell: as I was saying)

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[personal profile] redcinemareel 2016-08-28 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
My, my! How quickly you move~!

Perhaps you should just...get to know each other while you can? Before the novelty wears off. During that time, you'll get to you each others quirks and take advantage of them with small tokens of affection.
orlokbutterfly: ([Casual] Smirk)

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[personal profile] orlokbutterfly 2016-08-29 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
[That all sounds crazy suspicious and that this kid is just a rug for whoever they're with, but hey! That's none of Gale's business, that's for sure.]

Well, in that case, I ain't the best guy to go off of but I think the general consensus for relationships tends to be spend time together, dote on each other, buy a gift every now and then and communication is key.

... but, this is all coming from a guy who decided he can't be very easily committed so take that as you like.
orlokbutterfly: ([Casual] Hey~)

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[personal profile] orlokbutterfly 2016-08-29 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
It's as easy or as difficult as you guys make it. Just make with the communication and you should be fine.

[He shrugs.]

Me? Can't say I'm exactly a 'one person' kind of guy. Too many strings attached for me.
orlokbutterfly: ([Casual] Uh huh sure)

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[personal profile] orlokbutterfly 2016-08-29 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
There's too many gorgeous people out in the world. I can't let 'em all pass me by like that, y'know?

But hey, I'm not gonna go judgin' the people who are dedicated enough to stay with one person their whole lives. That kinda dedication is pretty impressive, so best of luck on that front, kid.

[He can't help but feel like this guy's gonna need all the help he can get.]
imaginationswoes: (Talking a lot)

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[personal profile] imaginationswoes 2016-08-29 12:52 am (UTC)(link)
Why not just talk to him and see what he likes.

[She smiles softly.]

Communication is important.

[As she's learned.]
redcinemareel: (Grell: oh well)

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[personal profile] redcinemareel 2016-08-29 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, novelty. How something new is exciting, but becomes stale over time.

[Hope she isn't bursting your bubble about relationships!]

That, and small gestures. Not everything needs to be bought.
imaginationswoes: (Looking up)

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[personal profile] imaginationswoes 2016-08-29 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
You can if you want to but do they like surprises?

[If he does then a surprise isn't a problem.]
stairsbro: (karkat; shove)

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[personal profile] stairsbro 2016-08-29 01:16 am (UTC)(link)
What do you mean "found out"?

Okay. Question: Are you both aware you're boyfriends or did you just realize you had an overabundance of feelings and you were basically acting like boyfriends the entire time? This shit is important to establish.
imaginationswoes: (Talking a lot)

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[personal profile] imaginationswoes 2016-08-29 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
[Airy bites her lower lip.]

Sounds like you should take some time to get to know each other. General advice won't help. It's different for everyone.
despairing_hope: (pic#10447322)

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[personal profile] despairing_hope 2016-08-29 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
I would be rather concerned to suddenly find out something like that. It sounds upsetting in fact. Even if I liked the person I wouldn't want that kind of commitment sprung on me without warning.

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