anonymous text

[la_matrona]

How would you go about forgetting someone completely? Or at least enough so the memory no longer hurts? How do you make yourself not care of their existence? How do you stop missing them when you know they are no good for you or anyone you care about? It seems the more I want to forget, the easier it is to remember...

Any help would be appreciated.


[and it doesn't seem fair that this should weigh so heavily on her heart when she doesn't even have one anymore]

Comments

[anon text]

[youfool]

[Time to not help at all!]

One shouldn't.

[anon text]

[la_matrona]

And why not?

Re: [anon text]

[youfool]

Eternity forbids thee.

[anon text]

[la_matrona]

What does that mean? [generally she doesn't care what anyone or anything forbids]

Re: [anon text]

[youfool]

It means that memories that significant aren't going anywhere, so naught's left but submission.

That's description. Prescription says that memories are bound up, and thus a formative part, of the soul. To dispense with those merely because they hurt is to, as said, flout eternity, or at least one's participation therein.

[Text]

[specialist_snowflake]

Sacrifice your memory to open an archway to your world.

[Heartless but practical.]

[anon text]

[la_matrona]

Philosophy is completely useless. If you don't know a way then don't say anything.

[anon Text]

[la_matrona]

An archway? [she has to think about this] Does that mean I can go home?

[Text]

[specialist_snowflake]

No. But you can enter a duplicate if you need to ease your homesickness.

Re: [anon text]

[youfool]

It's wisdom, which is only useless if it's unemployed. I tell you that way is folly. It's spiritual lobotomy.

[anon Text]

[la_matrona]

An empty home is an empty home. [worthless to her. Perhaps if her familia were to show up but with no guarantee of that....]

But is it strong enough to forget an entire lifetime of one person? [because she just needs the one and otherwise, what memory would she forget? When they met? When she decided she loved him? When he decided he didn't love her enough? No, it's too much]

[anon text]

[la_matrona]

You like to hear yourself talk, don't you?

[Text]

[specialist_snowflake]

Don't complain about the bonus benefits if you still achieve your primary objective.

I haven't tested it personally. But it should suffice.

Re: [anon text]

[youfool]

[Odd thing to say about text messages...]

I like when others cease scorning memory much more.

[anon text]

[la_matrona]

That's your problem. [she doesn't care what they like. They don't have to live with this]

[Text]

[la_matrona]

[fair enough] Very well. I appreciate your advice.

Anon text

[bigbadrose]

Don't you dare.

Anon text

[la_matrona]

Who are you to tell me what to do? I wasn't asking for your opinion.

Anon text

[bigbadrose]

[She's laughing out loud. Good cheek at least.]

My ex and I were fighting a lot when we first came, he didn't know the reason why or how he'd hurt me, or why I was hurting now. Now it's a year later, and he still doesn't know, so even though he wants to rebuild a relationship with me, it's all on shaky ground, yeah?

Don't do anything you'll regret.

Anon text

[la_matrona]

Well as I am not interested in any of that, I fail to see the problem. I've only ever had one regret and that is believing [him... but she quickly deletes that] that the world would ever be any different than it is.

Video he already forgot how to switch back to text nvm anon :TTT

[watcheddog]

You shouldn't do that.

I'd give up memories of my ex-wife, if it wasn't for our daughter. But even though times were really bad, if I just forgot her, then I wouldn't remember how or why to protect myself better.

Bad things we go through are still useful in the long run. They teach us how to do better.

Anon text

[bigbadrose]

I wasn't interested in making amends either, but our friends needed us to.

You're in a different world, it already is different.

anon text

[la_matrona]

[ugh. it's this disgusting man again. Why does he sound different? She doesn't even want to look at him. Though the fact that he has a daughter as well...

the fact that she continues to feel sympathy for these kinds of men just irritates her more. She doesn't want to. She wants to just let them go. The fact that she can't is a failing on her part.]

I've learned the lesson. [for a hundred years now. She's got it. She no longer needs the daily reminder.]

And I'm far beyond improvement. [she is more or less satisfied with her life in the Land of the Dead. Save for the one thing that always gets her teeth grinding which is why she wants to forget to begin with]

[video]

[howamanlives]

Forgetting something completely isn't right. You need to remember the painful stuff, or else you're ignoring the ways you can make yourself stronger.

Only cowards run from pain. And they usually hurt people to make those memories go away.

Anon text

[la_matrona]

I have none so it doesn't matter. [and she doubts what friends he's made care what she thinks or not. Well they'd be on his side so automatically not on hers and so she also doesn't care what they think]