You need to ask them then. And accept that their word is more important than yours.
And do what you can so you don't keep doing it.
Everyone hurts the ones they love the most sometimes. It's part of being family. Mistakes happen, it's part of learning.
Don't cling, but learn from that pain.
If you're still hurting, maybe it's because you're still trying to ignore something big. Like maybe you're still doing it, or haven't figured out how to avoid doing the same things over again, yeah?
Re: ANON
And do what you can so you don't keep doing it.
Everyone hurts the ones they love the most sometimes. It's part of being family. Mistakes happen, it's part of learning.
Don't cling, but learn from that pain.
If you're still hurting, maybe it's because you're still trying to ignore something big. Like maybe you're still doing it, or haven't figured out how to avoid doing the same things over again, yeah?