[anonymous text]

[lazyjustice]

Hello, my freinds

Everyone has their cares, their woes, and so on.
If it's a romantic entanglement or a scheme gone awry,
Feel free to come to Auntie for advice and she will tell you all that's in her heart.
Named or anonymous.
Auntie is here for you.

[signed, "Auntie", with a flourish]

Comments

text; anonymous

[sizedoesntmatter]

I never understand these things but, I guess sometimes it can help right?

With any problem?

anonymous

[lazyjustice]

The only way to understand is to try it out for yourself. Whether or not it helps depends on what you, dear reader, decide to do with the advice given.

anonymous

[sizedoesntmatter]

I guess that is true.

Might as well give it a shot. Basically, I love someone who doesn't love me back and my mind knows they never will, but pushing down the emotions while it works now and again doesn't work in the long run.

So is there a way to move forward without having to stop talking to the person?

anonymous

[lazyjustice]

A broken heart is difficult to mend. However pushing down the feelings is only filling the holes in the dam, not stopping the river. Though you seem aware of this.

The only way to move on from such a trouble is to move through it which is the hard part. There are several ways which this can be done.

Find someone to talk to and express your feelings to, the good and the bad.
Find a creative outlet.
Remind yourself that you can still care for this person even if the level of affection is not what you had hoped for.

Finally, remember that there is more than one kind of love, and more than one person to love. Try and find your contentment in what you have versus what you cannot have and etcetera

Good luck, my dear anonymous

Kindest Regards,

Auntie.

anonymous

[sizedoesntmatter]

Well I already have a creative outlet and do the third one often.

So log as they are happy, I'm happy that is all that matters. But... talking about it openly might actually help.

Thank you.

anonymous

[lazyjustice]

You are welcome. I hope it works out for you.