Yui Kusanagi (
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genessia2016-01-09 02:25 am
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[ Yui wants to believe Mikoshiba, she does. He's a good friend. But to be fair- he's been trying to get them together since he met them, it's hard to tell what to take with a grain of salt when it comes to her love life. Which is what prompts her to seek a little anonymous internet help... ]
I know there are a lot of opinions that go around about different species around here...
What about romance between them?
If one were an immortal being or deity, and the other person was a young human... would that be acceptable?
I can't help but think there would be some problems, and I don't want to put anyone through unnecessary trouble or heartache. I don't even know if it's really reciprocated so maybe this is strange to ask in the first place, but I have much experience with dating at all. I'm nervous and after a recent incident, things keep feeling strange whenever I'm around him. I tried to talk it over with a friend, but there were so many confusing parts. Everything else I've thought of as a reason not to are things that we can work on if he felt the same way, but...
It can't be that simple, can it?
Thank you,
Anonymous
I know there are a lot of opinions that go around about different species around here...
What about romance between them?
If one were an immortal being or deity, and the other person was a young human... would that be acceptable?
I can't help but think there would be some problems, and I don't want to put anyone through unnecessary trouble or heartache. I don't even know if it's really reciprocated so maybe this is strange to ask in the first place, but I have much experience with dating at all. I'm nervous and after a recent incident, things keep feeling strange whenever I'm around him. I tried to talk it over with a friend, but there were so many confusing parts. Everything else I've thought of as a reason not to are things that we can work on if he felt the same way, but...
It can't be that simple, can it?
Thank you,
Anonymous
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You believe that no person who means well has no good or truly helpful things to say, if they don't personally know the one looking for help, I take it. You must lead a cold life.
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Now, what I do believe is in incentive. Saying feel-good BS makes you feel good. And when you don't know them, it's even better, cause you never have to see the horrible consequences your awful advice enabled. Smiles all around! Conversely, only people who care about her have the incentive to say "no". It's not easy. People don't like to be the "bad guy". They'd rather type some garbage like "you go girl" or "follow your heart", content with their own cheap and easy cheerleading.
The sad thing is that if this girl actually had some sort group of people who actually cared and didn't want her to make stupid decisions, she wouldn't have to consult with internet dipshits in the first place. Either she doesn't have that or, worse, they're so braindead that the internet's actually a safer bet. Pick your poison. Either way, it's an awful situation for a young woman to be in, one which I promise a roll in the hay with Zeus won't help.
This probably went way over your head so I'll summarize: cram your officious ra-ra romance up your ass. Exploiting teenage vulnerabilities so you can feel better about how nurturing and supportive you are makes you a bad person.
Romeo & Juliet was a tragedy.
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It does not need to be a bad decision, everyone needs a little experience in life.
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Experience, there it is again. Spoken like a true dumbass. Hey, break your fingers and get into a car crash. That'll be a real 'experience' for you. I'm sure it'll be worth it for the life lessons, or something.
I'm gonna type this slowly so you understand. Some experiences can't be undone. Ever. They're like scars, only instead of making you look cool they'll just wreck you for life.
I can just imagine you chatting up some homeless guy with a drug addiction and no legs and going "wow, that must've been a really good experience". Stay positive!
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You don't know with what past experiences I say things with.
[ He is not going to reply to this any more, it's the same as engaging in conversation with Moriarty; completely vexing and making him want to punch him in the face. Now he's pissed and wants to go steal something. ]