Yui Kusanagi (
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[ Yui wants to believe Mikoshiba, she does. He's a good friend. But to be fair- he's been trying to get them together since he met them, it's hard to tell what to take with a grain of salt when it comes to her love life. Which is what prompts her to seek a little anonymous internet help... ]
I know there are a lot of opinions that go around about different species around here...
What about romance between them?
If one were an immortal being or deity, and the other person was a young human... would that be acceptable?
I can't help but think there would be some problems, and I don't want to put anyone through unnecessary trouble or heartache. I don't even know if it's really reciprocated so maybe this is strange to ask in the first place, but I have much experience with dating at all. I'm nervous and after a recent incident, things keep feeling strange whenever I'm around him. I tried to talk it over with a friend, but there were so many confusing parts. Everything else I've thought of as a reason not to are things that we can work on if he felt the same way, but...
It can't be that simple, can it?
Thank you,
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I know there are a lot of opinions that go around about different species around here...
What about romance between them?
If one were an immortal being or deity, and the other person was a young human... would that be acceptable?
I can't help but think there would be some problems, and I don't want to put anyone through unnecessary trouble or heartache. I don't even know if it's really reciprocated so maybe this is strange to ask in the first place, but I have much experience with dating at all. I'm nervous and after a recent incident, things keep feeling strange whenever I'm around him. I tried to talk it over with a friend, but there were so many confusing parts. Everything else I've thought of as a reason not to are things that we can work on if he felt the same way, but...
It can't be that simple, can it?
Thank you,
Anonymous
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But there's another reason you should stay single forever: you asked strangers on the internet for help regarding a very personal and very strange issue. Which means you're probably retarded and shouldn't even think about reproducing.
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I feel this place would be better off if you never reproduced, frankly. We hardly need idiots spreading such toxic lies to their children.
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Regardless though... When you tell someone they're stupid for asking it makes your opinion have a lot less impact, even if you had been in the right mythology set.
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Excuse you? [Honestly, the cyborg is absolutely pissed off by this simply because she feels this is more of an attack than it ought to be.]
If someone needs advice, then who are you to tell them what they can and can't do? On top of that, whoever "Hera" is doesn't matter in the slightest here. Humans and other beings have control of their own destinies, opinions from others be damned.
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She quickly shook those thoughts away.
There wasn't anything wrong with the thought, Izanami supposed, and although she was probably the worst person to give advice on this topic, she decided to humour it regardless.]
As a God...dating a human is not something I've ever thought about. I have met pleasant enough people since arriving here, yet I doubt a relationship would work unless we learnt not to fear each other.
...I doubt that makes sense.
Gods are vulnerable, and capable of love just as humans are.
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If this is who I think, it makes sense. I hope you find someone whether they're human or not.
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As you said, there will be problems to work through, as with any relationship...perhaps the main thing to consider is the fact that your lifespans are so vastly different. If that is something he is happy with, I see no reason why you two couldn't be together. After all, love is truly the most beautiful of emotions.
[Flonne may not be here, but Vyers is nearly as much of a love freak as she is. Although he'd given up his memories of what the feeling felt like, he at least felt he could offer this person some insight.]
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I don't want him to suffer if he does feel that way about me though..
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She tilted her head. "Though I suppose if you could find a means to make yourself immortal then there isn't any issue with running away. Likewise if you could make the immortal into a mortal creature safely. Both are possible."
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[ but a lot of gods and goddesses seemed to have problems with Loki from what she had heard. That could be dangerous. ]
I don't have any way of becoming immortal though..
[ that she knows about... ]
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yees Yes yes yes yes yse yes!
[Anubis is so enthusiastic for Yui he forgets to type correctly.]
All that matters is that you care about them. Besides, Thoth always said the gods acted immature! It’s just like in the Cinderella play. They were different, but they loved eachother.
Oh! But you do not know Thoth, do you, Anonymous?
- I am not a god!
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I know Thoth-san, Anubis-san.
[ You are too a god, Anubis. You dork. But she understands that he doesn't want to draw attention to himself, so she won't argue. ]
Maybe you're right though.. Cinderella may be a good metaphor for this.
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But that still doesn't mean that you shouldn't, if it's something that you both want. As long as you both understand the risks and the consequences before taking that step, then who is anyone else to stop you?
But you won't know if you don't talk to them and find out if their feelings are the same as your's.
[This could almost be like the thief and the police inspector's daughter.]
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love isn't a force that cares about obligations or anything like that but its the most powerful form of magic you can encounter
if you love someone and they love you can figure out a way to make it work
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[ It doesn't help that the god in question confessed to her in the middle of a prank, making her think he was just joking. Hence the intense hesitation compared to the normal conviction she held with her actions.. ]
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You'll never know unless you give it a shot, you know? Just talk to them about it and see how they feel, but if the case is the deity/immortal and human bit? Make sure you mention the eventual loss there and what will happen when that does. You don't want heartache because the immortal being hasn't realized that humans have such a short lifespan.
Take it from experience, you'll be better off knowing that you have to take a lifespan into account.
[Even if she's not technically immortal, she'll certainly outlive her own husband and this is absolutely something she's contemplated and had discussions about.]
And no one will know what's better for a possible relationship than those that are involved in it. So asking for anything more than general advice is a terrible idea, in my opinion.
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The most important thing is honesty in a relationship, with each other and with yourselves. Love often means different things to different people, and when you deal with people on different levels of existence, the problem only becomes more extreme. Don't be surprised if there are different expectations, stakes, and emotions felt on each side.
Good luck, either way.
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[ Being possessed by a ghost who wants to tell a god to stop blaming himself because she drowned herself is a pretty impactful thing. ]
But everything about him, whether he's a god or not.. you're right, I should stop being scared.
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If you feel a connection with them, no matter what/who they are, you should know in your heart if you need to pursue it or not.
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So while everyone might say it's a good thing ad to go for it. You should also consider the fact that they could be telling you pretty little lies or believe it so long as nothing more comes from it. If it does always expect the worse to happen.
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You mean children?
[ She expects it someday, but talking about it before the confession's even gotten out.. that's a little much! ]
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I cannot say that I have the experience to back my opinion up by facts as I have never been in a relationship with any deity or immortal being, however I bo believe that the problem of different life spans, if you will forgive my directness, may present some issue, unless it can be overcome somehow. After all, humans do live fairly short life, I'm afraid.
However, if you do harbor romantic feelings toward this person you are speaking of, then the first step would always be to see if he reciprocates, or if there is a chance of it in the future. After that you simply make your advances, dear, and be as direct as necessity requires of you.
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I know.. we've had a conversation about age before. Physically, he's around the same age as me, but I'm probably just a little blip on his lifespan..
YOu may be right, though I'm not sure what you mean by advances after the confession. That'd just be normal things after that, wouldn't it?
[ A+ first relationship Yui. ]
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perma anon for yui and non anon for lupin then?
sounds good!
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[After a slightly hesitant pause.]
As for the more personal side... I have yet to experience humans fully accepting one of their own pairing off with a non-human. The better outcome is being expelled from normal human society and being tolerated within the non-humans. At worst... Well, we did find enough pieces of my step-mother to give her a good funeral. We never found her unborn baby.
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I'm sorry about your step-mother...
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Besides, if you feel strongly enough about him to ask people like this, then you really ought to talk with him about it. It's clearly important to you. And emotions this strong--you've got to talk about them, honestly. Otherwise, you'll just be unhappy and worry about whether or not you should have.
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So you're saying.. the more nervous I am about this, the more important it obviously is. I guess I should've thought of that...